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am clueless about talking to chicks... HELP!
joe_bloggs Offline
#1 Posted : Tuesday, June 12, 2012 11:52:00 PM(UTC)

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Hey there,
I was married for 4 years (and together for 10) with my ex.
Separated 6 months ago, and moved interstate.
Have had a fling with 2 girls since then. 1 of them turned out to be a psycho, and the other I mistakenly fell for, but she lost interest (BIG punch in the heart)
Have gone out a few times now looking to meet some chicks, but just can't get there in terms of striking up a conversation. That choking feeling in the throat takes over, and just can't spit the words out. I know what I want to say, but it just doesn't happen. :(
Both of the girls I have been with since my ex, I got their number, and texted them to get to know them before dating.
I've tried a few of the free dating sites, and cannot even get the chicks to add me.
Am racking my brain as to how I can meet some girls, can anyone give me some ideas about online stuff, or anything I can do to boost my confidence to go up and talk to girls in a club / bar?
Anything would be greatly appreciated.
kstreet Offline
#2 Posted : Sunday, June 24, 2012 11:28:16 PM(UTC)

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Firstly, I'd recommend not referring to women as chicks (at least around women). It will make you seem more adult ;) If you have trouble making conversations how about something like a movie, play or ballet? Some girls welcome the opportunity to get out of the house and then you can always talk about what you just saw. Lastly, maybe bring a friend along and have her bring a friend along. Your friend could be your wingman and maybe set your up for a good convo? Just my thoughts.
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