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#1 Posted : Sunday, December 11, 2011 3:12:55 PM(UTC)

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After seven years together, it was probably one of the hardest decisions I ever had to make, but upon returning home after living abroad with him, I knew it was over. He had cheated and even though I was able to forgive him (or so I thought) the first time, years later, when I suspected he was up to it again, I wasn't so understanding. Don't get me wrong, I was still in love and wanted to make it work...so in my twisted young little mind, the only solution I could come up with was "an eye for an eye". I played that game for a while, and felt like dirt. I even told him what I had done, and he seemed to be relieved by the fact that we were finally "even"...Unfortunately for him, in my mind, we were far from it. It wasn't until I moved home and had some distance that I figured out how wrong the whole situation was. I was scared, and I was heartbroken, but the only logical solution at that point was to call it quits...

He didn't agree.

Three weeks later, after a series of weird ring and hang-up phone calls, who shows up on my doorstep? Mr. Wrong! He had flown 6 hours to get me back. The next week was the longest of my life. I don't know how many times I explained myself...it just fell upon deaf ears. I had made up my mind. Once the deed was done, I couldn't go back. We had wronged each other too many times and there simply was no repair for our relationship. I thought I had finally gotten through to him, when the day before his departure, he convinced me to have one more dinner together, as friends. I ended up falling ill and thought I could get myself out of it, but somehow he dragged me out of bed with Kleenex box in hand.

In our seven years together, he had never taken me out to a place as nice as this. It was like I was out with a new man. He was a complete gentleman. He pulled out my chair, put my napkin on my lap, ordered for me, the whole deal. The best part was that throughout the whole meal, not once did I have to defend my decision...He had finally dropped it! We shared a delicious meal in a lovely little romantic restaurant, seated at the best table in the house on a hopping friday night with a beautiful view of the inner harbour. After finishing our appetizers and main course, I see our server approaching our table with two glasses of champagne. Half-way there, he pauses in the middle of the busy restaurant and switches the two glasses then proceeds to the table.

I didn't even need to look in the glass...I knew what was in it. As much as I needed some alcohol, I didn't want to get to the bottom of the glass, where a giant, gawdy, yellow gold engagement ring sat, surrounded by bubbles. The ring I had waited so long for (well, definitely not THAT particular ring) was finally in front of me, but at that point, the last thing I wanted to do was put it on my finger. I took one look at my Ex and all I could say was "I'm sorry. No." I tried to politely excuse myself without creating a scene, but he burst into tears and started screaming "why? why? please be my wife! I can't live without you!" Now that we had the attention of the whole restaurant, he switches to Spanish to make his plea...which only drew us more attention. I tried to make my way to the exit, all the way up the grand staircase, with a grown man holding on to my ankles, crying, screaming my name and begging to have me back.

I had never been more embarrassed and heart broken...at the top of the stairs I told him that if he didn't let me go, I would puke all over him. And with that, he let go. I said goodbye and never saw him again...except in my nightmares.

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Threatening with vomit. interesting idea.
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Breakups and Revenge

Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
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