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How do you ask "the question"
caroline89 Offline
#1 Posted : Thursday, December 22, 2011 10:27:12 PM(UTC)

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One thing that always worries me if I am with a guy intimately is if he has anything, or has ever had anything. I know there is protection, but that doesn't cover all body parts and all things. I've also heard some diseases are small enough to through the protection. You just worry you know? Does anyone else ask this question? Also, if you do ask, has anyone ever admitted to anything? I mean, statistically speaking, 1 in 5 people (at least) should. Feel free to private message me your response if you don't want to post your answer. Thanks for the advice.
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#2 Posted : Friday, December 23, 2011 8:57:55 AM(UTC)

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How do you ask "the question"? You just ask. If you're ready to be intimate with someone, then you have to be willing to ask the questions necessary to protect yourself. That conversation (and the testing that goes with it... never ever take someone's word as truth when it comes to protecting yourself in this situation) should always happen WAY before you get naked. The hardest fact about sex that people don't talk about is how dangerous it is (despite the fun factor... and it can be incredibly fun). Diseases like herpes can be spread despite using protection (viral shedding allows herpes to be spread simply by skin on skin contact!). Protect yourself! I always get tested before I get down. Just my two (or ten) cents.
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#3 Posted : Wednesday, June 06, 2012 11:48:18 PM(UTC)

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I agree. Just ask.
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#4 Posted : Sunday, July 29, 2012 11:06:36 PM(UTC)

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The girl I'm seeing right now was just very upfront and nonchalant with me about it, just brought it up while we were grocery shopping together like anything else we would talk about - we discussed our sexual histories (no specifics but whether either of us were tested, etc...) and what we expected of each other as far as intimacy was concerned. I always knew she was easy to open up to, and was very open herself but that was the most unakward version of the "sex talk" I've ever had. Major brownie points!
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